-First tip: leave her clothes on. Touch her breasts over her bra and her clit over her sexy panties. It makes it a HUGE turn on for when you go to touch her bare skin.

-girls like being caressed. Don’t go straight for her pants if you haven’t even kissed her yet. Play with her a little, tease her a lot. Touch her gently down her body; it’ll give her shivers.

-Before you try touching her clitoris, try placing your hand on her entire vulva first and slowly moving it in circles with the slightest pressure.

-The usual position for this is you lying next to her while reaching down into her undies with one hand. You can also try sitting facing her between her open legs, while shes sitting or lying back with her knees up. She can sit on a chair, side of the bed, kitchen counter, etc…

- stroke her thighs with your fingers spread out, moving up, stroking her vagina and moving back down, and then move back up with both hands at the same time. If shes spreading her legs wider and wider, you know where she wants you to focus your attention on.

-start by holding your fingers against her labia and pay attention to how she positions herself and grinds against you. This will tell you where she wants you to touch and how gentle or rough. Her hip movements will be your guide on how fast or how hard she wants you to go at all times.

-now: this is where you’re going to start letting your fingers slide in deeper. MAKE SURE she’s wet first. If she’s not, its going to hurt her. You can gently put in one finger to see if shes lubricated enough, and pull it back out to rub her labia so that she can be lubricated there if shes not already.

-cup her pubic area and use your middle finger to rub her clitoris up and down and in circles. Slide two fingers next to it alongside so they stimulate the labia.

-don’t change your technique if shes getting extremely excited and looks like shes going to orgasm soon. And make sure shes always wet. Its easy for a girl to get too dry.

-you can try to keep slipping two of your fingers (maybe one if shes a virgin, even that may be too much for her, so if she is make sure youre taking it really slow and seeing how she feels) inside of her and moving them in and out, and doing a scissor like motion when you’re inside of her, or vibrating your fingers.

-my advice is focus on her clitoris more. When girls masturbate they don’t usually finger themselves inside their vagina, they focus more on their clitoris to bring them to orgasm.