Tips for him:

-Before anything else, ask her if she’d like you to shave your face. If you’re going down on her, most of the time stubble just hurts and can leave a rash.

-When you’re going to eat her out, don’t go directly for the pants! It’s all about anticipation, so work your way down. Play with her body first- kisses on the lips, neck, and so on until you reach your main spot. You will be able to tell if she wants you to lick her already if she’s moving her hips upward towards your face.

- let her sit on your face; it’s a great position. You are more rested, your neck wont get cramped, your tongue not as tired, and she controls the speed and the strength.

- another great position: “she lies back on the bed, you kneel between her legs, then you lift them up so they’re resting on your shoulders. You’re in a kneeling position, she’s lifted in the air, her shoulders still on the bed. She uses her hands to support herself, plus you’re supporting her by holding her legs. This feels fantastic and she gets the added turn-on of seeing exactly what’s going on.

-leave her underwear on and lick on top of it. And instead of taking them off try moving them to the side; it feels a little more naughty which will turn her on even more.

-separate her lips with your fingers, and first stimulate her clit. Be gentle, and use the flat of your tongue; you’ll last longer and she’ll like it better. Make small circles and up and down motions. Keep your movements varied.

-if you have trouble getting the right place, tell her to show you with her fingers by making a piece sign or a “V” shape, and putting them where she wants you to lick.

- according to certain experts, one side of the clit is more sensitive than the other. So you can always test this by making one side more accessible and playing with it, then doing the same with the other side and seeing if its true for her.

-use your tongue as a pencil to “write” on her clit. Spell things out so you can keep your movements varied.

-grab her ass! Squeeze it and start moving her cheeks in circles- this stimulates her anal area, which is highly sensitive.

-increase speed and pressure and don’t stop until she tells you to or until she pulls away (don’t take it personally if she does, she can get overstimulated).

If she doesn’t have an orgasm after trying all of this, don’t beat yourself up about it. For women, it’s definitely something they have to learn how to do, and the older they become and the more practice they get helps a lot. So just hang in there ;)