Sex. Sex. Oh, and- sex. - this isn’t really a sex question but more about relationships.(I hope you can still help me?) Anyways, the thing is I haven’t had a boyfriend or even a date in like years, but the weird part is that a lot of boys check me out and I’ve had guys tell me that they think I am really hot and attractive… and I am just really confused, cause what they are telling me and the reality of things are completely conflicting?

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→ 16 Oct 11 at 1 pm

Asked by Anonymous

tags: sex relationships advice

this isn't really a sex question but more about relationships.(I hope you can still help me?) Anyways, the thing is I haven't had a boyfriend or even a date in like years, but the weird part is that a lot of boys check me out and I've had guys tell me that they think I am really hot and attractive... and I am just really confused, cause what they are telling me and the reality of things are completely conflicting?
i dont wanna sound mean, but the fact that theyre tellling you that youre hot and if they want to date you are two different things.
trying to date somebody goes both ways.
A lot of the times the guy may be too shy to make a move, especially if he can’t tell if you’re interested in him or not.
i’m sure you’re very very pretty, but that’s not all it takes to be with somebody.
if you want to have a boyfriend, you have to put yourself out there.
be nice, be flirty, and if you have to, be forward and make the first move!
cuz trust me guys are pussies when it comes to that sort of stuff <.<

out of all my relationships, only 2 of the men ive dated have actually asked ME out. i had to ask out all the rest XD
if you want something, go out there and get it. (:

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