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10 Oct 11 at 10 pm

Asked by Anonymous

asker Hey. I know everyone says it'll come naturally, but plenty of people have tried to hook up with me and I have kinda froze when it happened. I just want to know what to do. Not how to tilt my head etc, what to do. Please help. I really like this guy and I'm so sick of not being able to do what everyone else seems to be able to without any problems at all.

You mean, you just can’t bring yourself to have sex?
Maybe you just aren’t comfortable enough to do it yet?
There is a right time for everything my dear. if you get to anxious, i suggest trying to relax before it happens, and definitely take it SLOW. “
have a lottt of foreplay beforehand- a lot of making out and touching and intimacy and what not, so you can feel good with your partner for when it comes to doing the actual deed ;D
theres really no other way for me to help you because ultimately its up to you to be ready for it.
try meditating to relax if you have to! the thing i do suggest though, is do NOT take anything like alcohol or drugs to make you feel more relaxed, because your performance and judgment levels will definitely go down.
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