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10 Oct 11 at 10 pm

Asked by Anonymous

asker Im going to assume you drink or have had sex with someone who does to ask this question. But if you don't then I apologize if my assumption offends you. But anyway, do you find sex more pleasurable while drunk or high? The last time I had sex with my boyfriend he was extremely drunk and it was amazing. He was so much rougher and more aggressive than the other times that we've had drunk sex. I wanna tell him Id like it if he was rough all the time. How should I bring it up?

i actually find sex more pleasurable when im sober.
ive had drunk sex and it was nice, but  i am just able to experience it better when im sober because im actually paying full attention to everything and i feel everything a LOT more. 
You can bring it up next time youre about to have sex or are having a casual/serious conversation.
Let him know that when you had drunk sex it was really great for you, and tell him why. then say that you’d like to have more of that type of sex because it was really enjoyable for you.
you could also start by asking him what his best sex experience has been with you, and then you can share yours after. :)

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