Sex. Sex. Oh, and- sex. - [continuation, tumblr didn’t let me write] so in the second time it was the same sh*t. I tried to make everything cool, but he just couldn’t relax, and didn’t get excited enough. U think it was only his “stress” or I was the problem? (we finished dating a long time ago, I’m with another man now, but I just can’t get this out of my head)

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→ 04 Oct 11 at 4 am

Asked by Anonymous

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[continuation, tumblr didn't let me write] so in the second time it was the same sh*t. I tried to make everything cool, but he just couldn't relax, and didn't get excited enough. U think it was only his "stress" or I was the problem? (we finished dating a long time ago, I'm with another man now, but I just can't get this out of my head)
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okay. honestly, when a girl is standing naked in front of a guy, waiting for him to just take it all, the girl is NOT the problem. unless he is gay >.>

it could have been that he was stressed, or just damn NERVOUS to actually be getting laid and having a gorgeous girl stripping for him and putting her mouth on his dick!
i know a LOT of girls who have trouble with their male partners because he cant get it up :/ it can be a combination of a LOT of things, and emotional factors have a lot to do with it.
i say dont worry too much about it, its in the past, and just try to make your current sex life as wonderful as possible :D

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