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24 Sep 11 at 2 pm

Asked by Anonymous

asker I'm 15, my boyfriend and I have had anal sex but when we first did it, I bled a little.. We tried to do it again several times but it hurt too much, it starts to sting as if I have a cut. I can't tell whether that's supposed to happen or it's cause my asshole's tight and small, according to him. Also, we've tried to have vaginal sex as well, but that hurt so much too, I know it's supposed to hurt since my "cherry" isn't popped but what can I do to actually do it and not feel so hurt?

it stings as if you have a cut because you probably DO. having anal sex is NOTHING like having vaginal sex. your vagina lubricates, and its walls are meant to expand for that sort of thing. your other  hole is actually not intended to stretch as much. so the reason for your pain in the rear is because you’re tearing at your skin when you’re trying to penetrate it. for both vaginal and anal intercourse, i just say use a LOTTTTTT of lube. you need the extra lubrication so everything can slide in and out easier.

i can never stress this enough :) buy some water based lube, and try again.
tell your boyfriend to enter SLOWLY, and relax your muscles because being tense wont help you.

and please, WEAR A CONDOM. at all times <3 :D 

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